A good relationship takes a lot of hard work from both people involved. Give and Take is a must. :) <3
I agree, Desta!
Lol I'm still waiting.
Roxanne, I'm sure he's right around the corner and hopefully looks a lot like Brad Pitt! Lol! ;-)
I Believe Love finds its way. When a person starts to look on the quality/character than the body, I believe that types of relationships last longs. Though I yet not find the one who can accept me as I am.
One day Someone asked me, what type of girl i want, then i simply said, I don't have a list that the girl should be of this type of that type, I want the girl should accept me as I am.
as I often says. God created Woman to assist a man, when God looks on a lone person and finds, now this person needs help so He let things happen and let the appropriate help meet Him. :)
I think a marriage does take to people to be come as one and then they do become soulmates and they take it one day at a time. And they always need to be able to tall thing s out and always trust each other. Where there is no trust there s no togetherness. A having our lord in our life really makes our life and us always have hope and love in our life so I pray for all of us love and trust love and happyness. Good bless us all
I have always said that when you want your spouse's happiness more than you want your own, you will have a successful marriage. Of course, the spouse has to want that too. It had worked for me and mine for over 42 years now 😊
Thank you, Joy, for the words of wisdom! Congratulations on 42 years! That's awesome!
Three things I have learned in relationships
1.Most important know self and remember its all about you and your way of handling not about them...u should not want to change or control another. However you can and should control how you let another effect and control you.
Thus don't fous on what they did wrong but why you allowed them in your space if you think they do wrong way/things.. We tend to accuse and focus on another than work on our why's..
2.Acceptance, Communication is a must. We accept our friend get mad and forgive... but this is harder in relationship for people why? Is it because it goes back to us and our open minded acceptance unacceptance..boundaries and our own ways? Expectations r so high when we deal with spouse r children why is this. Have no expectations...you will have no anger or disappointments for anger is only expectations disappointed... Learn to let go and truly accept others as they are but also know your happiness boundaries so you Dont allow those to come within your world if they Dont bring happiness.. Usually one does this due to low self esteem.. Even w children...
3.Last but not least is how each of u have been taught to love (how u give love) and receive love...if u don't love self..You will never know true unconditional love...for love is a four letter word defined by each...by parents and life till you learn to define for self!! Most love how they want to b lovd ...this don't work...One has to learn however another sees/defines love and receives love... to make the other feel loved...
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